Deeply, Madly, Passionately
What could I possibly be talking about? Love of course. But of course.
How many of you are deeply, madly, passionately in love?
I don’t mean with someone else.
I actually mean with yourself.
Sound silly? Arrogant? Ridiculous?
Good. Nothing exciting ever happens in safe, conservative, uptight land.
I recently read this wonderful book called Soul Mate Secret by Arielle Ford. Yes, it is about attracting the love of your life. And yes, I picked it up so that I can figure out how to attract the love of my life. Totally read it looking for results. I said RESULTS, dammit! Where the F#&* is HE!?! How the F#&* am I going to find him?!?!
I started implementing some of her “secrets”. I was serious about these results.
Among several things, I turned my home space that would welcome LOVE, thanks to some amazingly creative friends.
I treated myself to gifts that I would want someone to treat me to.
I even started talking to myself the way I would want the love of my life to talk to me. “It’s ok, you are doing a great job, Erin. You are wonderful and amazing and special” (hello, who doesn’t want to hear this from the love of their life)
And do you know what has happened since implementing these “SECRETS”?
I started to fall MADLY, DEEPLY, PASSIONATELY in LOVE ME. Exactly as I am. No strings attached.
I started to realize that every thought I think, every feeling I have, every action I take is either an act of SELF LOVE, or it’s not. “Is this thought LOVING towards me?” And if it its not, I changed it. I started to LOVE MYSELF UP so much, that settling for anything less than total ADORATION for myself started to feel crappy.
I could FEEL when I wasn’t being loving, kind or understanding (all the things I would want a LOVER to do for me.) I started judging myself less, which means I am judging others less. I started taking deep care of myself and being patient, which means I am more patient and caring with others. I am being lighter, sillier (I was pretty silly before), which allows me to be lighter and sillier with others.
As a result, I am the HAPPIEST I have been in a very very long time. Unabashedly Happy if I dare say so.
So I ask you, ARE YOU READY TO LOVE YOURSELF UP?
I invited my workshop students to sign a contract that they would do AT LEAST one loving thing a day for themselves.
Are YOU willing to do that?!
If you are ARE WILLING TO DO ONE LOVING THING FOR YOURSELF FOR THE NEXT 30 days, leave a comment below that you are all in.
What ONE LOVING THING WILL YOU DO TODAY?! I want to know!:)
I hope you have a blessed February. I am starting another Magical Manifesters 5 week course the Monday March 7th. If you need some clarity, focus, direction, maybe this is the ONE LOVING THING you can do for YOU!! CLICK HERE FOR DETAILS
Love you, Love you, Love you!